Paul Harvey (radio host from 1952-2008) used to have this radio bit titled “The Rest of the Story.” I am reminded of that title when I think of how some people and places in my life have a story for me that lasts decades, and I expect future decades of story to be added. There is an added richness to my experience when I consider not only today, but also the rest of the story.
My trip to Rhode Island was a great opportunity to meet up with old friends. States are tiny on the northeast coast, so visiting state to state is like driving to another town.
Kim, Will, and I used to work together at the National Weather Service in Burlington, Vermont in 1995-1998. They knew me when I was pregnant with Tara, and got to meet baby Tara in the first weeks of their life. Tara and I went to Kimberly’s wedding. Kim still works for the National Weather Service in Massachusetts. Will still forecasts for Vermont, though he lives in Rhode Island. Romain is a Catholic priest, and was a classmate at Brandeis University and became one of my best friends at school in 2005-07. Tara and I last saw Romain when he gave us a tour of the Harvard College campus back when Tara was deciding what college to attend. These friends weave through my life.
We met for lunch at a place in between all three of us, in Taunton, MA. We chatted for two and a half hours, but finally Kim had to go to work. It was so easy to get comfortable with them all despite not having seen any of them for years, and I was happy that Will and Kim and Romain easily enjoyed each others’ company though meeting for the first time. Before Romain left he gave me a stunning birthday gift of a glass dragon for the Dragon Lady.
The next morning I had to leave Rhode Island. It dawned that spectacular blue that only happens in New England winter skies, and I had Will hold the car while I finally got a great shot of the Superman Building, Providence’s tallest skyscraper. Will told me that locals call it that because it reminds them of the Daily Planet building in Superman comics. You know, the newspaper where Clark Kent worked.
Being a nerdy girl myself, the idea of a comic book connection was intriguing and I looked up images of the Daily Planet. I think the residents of Providence are generous in their memories, because the building really doesn’t look anything like what I found online. However!! I’m not a connoisseur of comics, particularly not DC, so there might have been a series or an artist that drew the building more like the Providence building. You be the judge.
There is no denying that it’s a stunning building. It’s gorgeous and I love it. The 26-story building opened in 1928. I was dismayed to find out that it has been empty for over 5 years and has such a low real estate value placed on it that there are calls for it to be demolished. There have been a couple of plans to put a new tenant in there, but a lot of rennovation work is required, and the maintenance on that place would be enormous, so the Mayor has not been able to find a new company to occupy the building. Thank goodness someone is trying to save Superman in the meantime.
I’ve mentioned the Biltmore Hotel in earlier posts and haven’t talked much more about it because I managed to forget to take photos inside. We were usually on our way to do something fun and I didn’t want to stop for photos in the hotel, or on our way back from something fun and I was too tired. I managed to get two pictures that help you get a sense of how wonderful it is inside. At the top of the staircase is a neat old glass elevator that is no longer in use by guests, but Will recalls from his younger days that it was fun to try and sneak onto the elevator for a ride and a view of the city.
Then we went to the airport and I remembered to thank the TSA personnel for working with no pay because of the government shut down. Providence has a small airport like Portland’s, and checking in was a breeze. Soon I was in my seat. I always want a window seat. I was in my first airplane at about age 8 and I’ve been flying commercial since age 16, and yet I still get a thrill when I’m in the air. With a background in meteorology, I marvel at the up-close look at clouds. With an unquenchable yearning for new sights, I spend all the time I can with my face pressed up against the safety plexiglass, peering through the frost patterns, in speechless awe at the planet below.
Conscious Engagement 
Some stories never end. You know mine and Jackie’s
I know you remarried, but I don’t know the story. I must have missed it. I’ve seen a billion old photos of the early days, so I know there is a long story there. Tell me what happened.
We married in 1968. I had been widowed for the first time. We parted 4 years later. After almost forty years we met again at our son’s 40th birthday. In the meantime we had both remarried and I had been widowed for a second time. We have been together for 10 years now – remarried last year.
That is an incredibly romantic story. You two are so much fun in the few years that I’ve “known” you. The spark must have been there all along, but the timing was off. Your kids must have been amazed when you first announced you were dating again. Ha ha!
And our granddaughter, who hadn’t twigged that her Grandpa and Grannie had once been married 🙂
ha ha ha!!!
“Sounds like a very fun trip! Thanks for sharing it with us.
It was brief and fun and brightened up my winter, that’s for sure!!
To see old friends is even better than seeing old buildings. It seems a shame to tear down such a large structure but I understand that plumbing and electric in that amount of time would be costly to replace not to mention windows, etc. Glad you had a great time.
Yes!! Old friends. That gathering was the result of Romain’s insistence! I didn’t want to impose on Will, my chauffeur, having to drive me around, but Romain told me to name the place, and he would be there. Aren’t friends the best?! So I got in touch with Kimberly too, and that worked out as well. It was a wonderful late birthday lunch and celebration of friends who last a lifetime.
Fascinating. I love the Superman building too and it’s definitely that! Sad that it’s empty!
But this: “I remembered to thank the TSA personnel for working with no pay because of the government shut down.” reminded me that I need to read news a bit more. I have heard of the shut-down but didn’t realise it means no payment for a bunch of people!! Damn!! America needs help!
I do hope the city can put a new renter into the Superman building rather than knock it down!
This was the longest government shut down in American history. There have been 20 shutdowns since 1976. It’s when Congress can’t agree and pass a spending plan, so then by law we can’t keep running the government. Workers deemed “non-essential” are sent home and not allowed to work. These are National Park employees, for example, or an office’s human resources department. Anyone deemed “essential,” must continue to come to work, as usual. Obviously this includes law enforcement, airport security personnel, national weather service, etc.
Once Congress comes up with a budget, then everything gets going again. Their first action is usually to vote on whether to give all federal employees the pay they would have received. They always vote yes, but they don’t have to, so it’s a little nerve-wracking to be one of those employees. Every federal employee, even those who did not work during the shut down, gets back pay. This time, people had to miss two paychecks, which is over a month of no income. Federal employees are often not well paid, so going that long with no income was very hard for a lot of them.
Not mentioned: government contract workers are civilians who do work for the government, but are not federal employees. They were just out of luck. Congress does not address their missed paychecks.
Thank you for your explanation.