Not your parents transgender

This person who has been right next to me all these years, is actually way more genuine and brave than the one I gave up.

Goat Rocks Wilderness

We want to do things for the first time together. Is that sappy?

Love Affair Exposed!

Indulge me while I rave about some extraordinary music that I am crazy about, and the story of how I met the man who makes it.

Year-old Texts

I miss my Mom.

Religions and Relationships

In the whole scheme of things, what I am responsible for boils down to me and my short life, which, when all is said and done, is done.

Surround yourself with beauty

Before the year is out, I want to lament the loss of my mother once again. Maybe I can find a way to process my grief in 2012 and stop spinning around like a leaf in a pool. Today, after working 5 hours of overtime on a Saturday – New Year’s Eve no less – […]

How Do I Let Go?

Arno and I are getting to know each other still. And we will continue to, of course, for years to come. He has seen that deeply personal messages sent originally to him will sometimes end up in a public forum. He said he’s realizing that <in his words> I am a writer, and a writer […]

poignant

Pandora you wicked one.

Am I becoming well?

On a plane over the Pacific Ocean, I have an unfortunate juxtaposition of two opposite emotions when I think of Arno. I am more confident and trusting in this man than ever before; more than seems reasonable or rational. I am nearly certain of a future with him, I am on the edge of ready […]

Timeline of foreclosure – 1

Bite Me, California Family Law Courts: I will take charge of this despite you!